Bringing vibrators into the bedding can spice up your love life. However, introducing these devices to the bedroom can seem a bit intimidating. If you’re nervous about bringing vibrators to the bedroom, the following tips will make it easier to introduce these toys to your partner.
Tip #1 – Talk About Vibrators and Other Toys
Honest, open communication is essential to every couple’s love life, so before you whip out a vibrator in the bedroom, take the time to talk to your partner about adult toys. Ask your partner how he or she feels about vibrators. Find out if your partner thinks that these devices will be a fun addition. Communicating with your partner will help you learn what your partner thinks, and if your partner feels threatened, you’ll the chance to reassure your partner that vibrators are to enhance the fun, not replace the intimacy you share. This is the perfect time to talk about other things you enjoy in the bedroom, and you can bring up ideas that you’re interested in trying together.
Tip #2 – Give Your Partner Some Reassurance
In some cases, partners that aren’t familiar with vibrators may be worried that they aren’t doing things right in the bedroom, which can lead to insecurity. Take the time to reassure your partner, letting your partner know that you’re not unsatisfied. Make sure you’re partner knows that you want to increase the adventure in the bedroom, but you’re not trying to replace your partner.
Tip #3 – Explore Options Together
Spend some time shopping together for vibrators. Get online and look at the many available options. This will help your partner begin to get more comfortable with the idea. You can read reviews, check out the newest technology in vibrators, and look for options that you both like. It’s possible to find vibrators designed for women, men, and even options designed for use by couples. After exploring your options, consider ordering a vibrator together to get things started.
Tip #4 – Start with Something Simple
If your partner has no experience with vibrators, it’s best to start with something simple and small when you begin bringing these devices into the bedroom. A large vibrator may seem intimidating for someone who has never used one before. Small egg-shaped or bullet shaped vibrators are a perfect choice when you’re just getting started.
Tip #5 – Talk About the Experience
After you’ve used a vibrator in the bedroom for the first time, spend some time talking about the experience. Ask your partner what he or she liked about using this adult toy. Find out if anything about the experience caused any discomfort. Decide together whether you want to keep experimenting with vibrators or other toys in the bedroom.
Introducing your partner to vibrators doesn’t have to be a scary, intimidating experience. Remember, your love life is all about creating intimacy and fulfilling each other’s needs. After you’ve successfully introduced vibrators to your partner, then you may want to talk about exploring other ways to spice up your love life.
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