Everyone is doing it. At least that is what it seems like. Americans are not prudes. A survey by Ann Summers showed that 3 in 5 couples use sex toys together once every 2 weeks. 94% of the other 2 couples want to use them on their significant other. Kink is in and adding a few more sex tools to your “tool belt” is something that every couple can do. Sex toys can enhance your sex life and the intimacy that you have with your partner.
- Anticipation.
The brain is the largest sex organ you have. Just thinking about a potential experience will fire up the imagination and get you ready for some quality time.
- Communication.
You will have to talk and just that act will enhance your feelings of intimacy. Looking at products online will have you discussing want you want to try in the bedroom. Going to an adult stores will get you nervous and hot at the same time. While there you might even decide to pick up a naughty outfit or a little porn. Conversing about your preferences and boundaries can help you find out more about your partner and the nuances of their desires. We all have fantasies and the bedroom that you share with your partner is a safe place to explore.
- Remember when you first met.
You had tingles the first time you touched. You were curious how your new partner would feel and how they would touch you. A dildo or other sex toy is a new sensation. You will enjoy the massaging pulses and vibrations on your intimate parts. Your lover will get off on watching you enjoy the stimulation and may want you to try it on them.
- Climax
Sex toys are aids. If you are like most women, it takes you longer to climax and requires more clitoral stimulation. If you are a man, you may not be able to go long enough. These toys help your partner to press the right button to get your juices going. When you and your partner come, oxytocin is released and the both of you will continue to cuddle and bond post-coital. At the end of the day, you just want to leave each other satisfied sexually and emotionally; toys are just a means to an end.
- Fun.
Sex toys can help to release inhibitions and be a little wild or naughty. It is time to unleash those desires and show your versatility. You are more than the traditional roles taken on. Be a Sex Goddess (or God). Let them worship at your altar.
Try something new in the bedroom. It just might feel good.
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