When speaking to women, many men stammer, stutter and stumble like a clown. It is embarrassing.
You want to impress her but, instead, wind up looking like a fool. The words just do not come out. In most cases, this nervousness results from a lack of self-confidence.
Sorry, self-help tapes will not work here. No, the only way to improve the situation is to have your so-called game tight. This means, in ordinary parlance, you need to have your life in order.
So, here are the top five ways to ensure a confident mentality when speaking to women.
5. Have Your Money in Order
Broke men feel insecure that women will leave them for guys with bigger bank accounts. The best thing is to make sure that you have your money in order before trying to pick up that dream woman.
This does not mean you have to be rich. No, wealthy men have trouble with women too. You just have to have a decent income and live below your means. These two things create the disposable income to spend on the two of you.
4. Dress for Success
Clothing is important. When we are dressed well, we feel good. We know that people see us as successful and powerful. So, when you want to talk to a woman with the strength of conviction in your voice, put on a nice, clean suit. Maybe even add a tie.
3. Know How to Speak in the Right Manner
Men often second-guess their grammar and lingo when speaking to women.
You want to sound intelligent but not too geeky. So, it is best to work it from both angles. First, demonstrate that you can use the King’s English. Sound like an educated man to start things off. Then, when it is time, switch off and use some street slang.
2. Let Her Speak
It is often difficult for some men to know when to let women speak. These men are so nervous that they just keep talking. Perhaps, they believe they can sell themselves to the lady. It hardly ever works. Instead, let her talk.
You listen and respond to what she says. In effect, you can now be sure that the subject of the conservation is of interest to her.
1. Take Care of Any Physical Limitations
Most important is to handle any physical problems that cause self-consciousness. Short men have to deal with it now. Overweight men have to deal with it now. Men who are less than attractive have to deal with it now.
Worrying about your height, weight or looks only leads to nervousness during a conversation.
Try to work on any perceived physical limitations. Short men can wear clothes that accent their height. For example, long stripes make a man appear taller. Men with weight problems can dress in loose fitting clothes. It may also be best for them to visit the gym. Last, men who dislike their looks can get a nice haircut.
Do all you can to make yourself look and feel better.
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