Meaningful companionship can be difficult to come by. We know it’s out there. Other people seem to have it. You’re always hearing about love at first sight. But what about finding love on purpose? Is there any point to trying? Well, yes- and here are a few tips to optimize your chances of finding a partner who completes you.
1. Get to know yourself
If you don’t understand your own personality type, you don’t have much of a chance of knowing what you really want. Take the time do ask yourself what you’re really looking for. Put yourself into imaginary relationships and think what the outcome would be as best as you can. Think your options through thoroughly.
2. Know your assets
Develop a clear idea of what good and bad qualities you will bring to a relationship. What can you do to make someone happy? What kind of person is likely to appreciate the particular things you can do to make a partner happy? What do you like to do with your time? What sort of person would like the same things?
3. What do you want?
Develop a generalized idea of your ideal mate. Don’t make it too specific, or you’ll never find a match for your preconceived idea. Keep an open mind, but stick to some respectable standards.
Remember, sometimes the harder you try- the harder finding love can be. So, be yourself and try to enjoy your everyday life as much as you can. Do that, and love is much more likely to come and find you!
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