News flash!  It’s not all about sex.  Are you surprised?  Here are eight ways you can please your spouse without wrapping up in the sheets for hours and calling it a day.

8. It’s Not all about You

It takes two people to complete a relationship, so it’s obvious that the entire relationship cannot be about you.  A relationship is about giving and taking equally.  Share your thoughts and your world with your spouse.  When you act as if the world revolves around you and only you, problems occur.  It’s best to avoid complications if you can.

7. Financial Matters

If you can’t handle your financial endeavors, this will become a problem sooner than later.  It’s sexy when you know your spouse can help you pay the bills in the home and you don’t have to struggle to make ends meet.  Both of you should be able to come together and take care of the household as a whole.  Financial issues will destroy a relationship to the point that it cannot be repaired.  Don’t put yourself in this situation.  Handle your business and get things done.

6. Know the Time

There is a time and place for everything, and when you mix up the times, this can be bad on your part.  There’s a time to play and there’s a time to be serious.  You don’t have to be all work and no play, but there is a time when you need to be one or the other.  If you can find the thin line that balances everything, great for you!

5. Make Time for Your Spouse

Many couples encounter issues with the time factor.  If you spend most of your time at the office or on the job, when do you have time to share with your spouse?  Time issues could be a reason for separation.  It may be difficult, but you need to make time for your spouse and work.  The balance is there, you have to take your time and find it.

4. Show Interest

If you don’t show interest in your spouse, it’s certainly noticeable and not a turn-on.  There is always at least one person who doesn’t mind doing what you are not willing to do.  it doesn’t matter how long you have been married.  In order to keep the spice and romance within the relationship, show your spouse you care by doing little gestures.  A lot of the time, it’s the little things that mean the most.

3. Have a day for your Spouse

There may not be a such thing as spouse day, but you can make one!  This special day should be about your spouse and doing the things they enjoy doing the most.  This event can be something you choose to do every month or every year.  As long as you take the time to dedicate at least one day to your spouse, it will make a tremendous difference.

2. Encourage your Spouse

Aside from children, if you have any, you motivate your spouse more than anyone else.  Help them achieve their goals and dreams.  It’s a great feeling when your spouse is happy and successful, and you are standing by their side.

1. Do what you Say

Whether you are a man or a woman, it’s a great feeling to know that you can depend on your spouse.  Keep your word and do what you say you are going to.  A man or woman of their word is sexier than you can imagine.