Dating Advice

1. Deciding to improve way you dress is a very complimentary method of impressing your date. Whether it is your first date, or you have already been going out together for months, when someone takes special care in dressing for a date it sends a message. You are saying that this person you are spending time with means a lot to you. This time together is worth planning ahead and taking time to prepare to look your best. Your date will respond to the added attention and planning.
2. Finding out about the things she or he likes to do is an unspoken message. You’re showing them that you are enthusiastically looking out for your date’s comfort, interests, and want to provide a wonderful experience for them. Gathering information in advance is the best way to ensure your date will be fun-filled, comfortable, and impressive. People who do not prepare ahead end up finding out too late that their date doesn’t like fish, has severe allergies to certain flowers, or is afraid of high places.
3. Another special detail is first date endings, how to wind down the first date. Anything you can do to take the awkwardness out of the last few moments of a first date is worth thinking through. For example, if you are planning to go to dinner during your first date together, spend some time alone with your date after the meal, a park bench, sitting by a fire-pit, or walking along a pond or quiet street, just to talk. This helps avoid an uncomfortable first time alone moment when saying good night. It also speaks volumes to your date if you spend alone time with her without feeling like you have to kiss her right away. Showing her you are interested in what she is thinking, and not ending the date abruptly is key.